Welcome! Weddings by David and Toni is dedicated to working with couples to provide you with the unique, personalized attention that you deserve. We deliver Christian-based wedding ceremonies, uniquely customized to ensure your special day is one to remember!
We are a husband and wife team that have worked together all our married lives. We are semi-retired but still enjoy being Wedding Officiates and we perform beautiful, Christian ceremonies. We have done weddings on the beach with just a couple, as well as large military weddings with luxurious venues and receptions - And a wide range of weddings in-between.
We are both Evangelical, Non-denominational Ministers, Wedding Officiates, and legal representatives of the state of Florida, so you can choose whether you would like a male or female to marry you. With your input about your story, we will write a beautiful, personal, and unique ceremony. We have done sand, wine, rope, and communion ceremonies and can include anything else that our couples request.
It is our privilege to be entrusted with sealing your commitment to each other by offering you our commitment to excellence. ‘Your Wedding, Your Way,” is our promise to you.
We also offer photography and DJ/Karaoke services for small weddings and day of wedding coordination and events of all kinds
We are a husband and wife team that have worked together all our married lives. We are semi-retired but still enjoy being Wedding Officiates and we perform beautiful, Christian ceremonies. We have done weddings on the beach with just a couple, as well as large military weddings with luxurious venues and receptions - And a wide range of weddings in-between.
We are both Evangelical, Non-denominational Ministers, Wedding Officiates, and legal representatives of the state of Florida, so you can choose whether you would like a male or female to marry you. With your input about your story, we will write a beautiful, personal, and unique ceremony. We have done sand, wine, rope, and communion ceremonies and can include anything else that our couples request.
It is our privilege to be entrusted with sealing your commitment to each other by offering you our commitment to excellence. ‘Your Wedding, Your Way,” is our promise to you.
We also offer photography and DJ/Karaoke services for small weddings and day of wedding coordination and events of all kinds
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The one site where you can request a male or female Officiant.
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God’s Plan for Marriage
Genesis 1:27-28 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” “A man doesn’t own his marriage; he is only the steward of his wife’s love.” ~ Edwin Louis Cole (Ed Cole) Dealing With Stress on Your Wedding Day
by Tim Brown Stress. It seems to be something that can eat away at all of us. It's how you handle the stress that matters and that's one thing I hear from all the couples I shoot. "Tim, you kept us on the up and up at times when we were really heading down." Or, another time when I got, "Tim, you took all of the worries and concerns away and let us enjoy what was ours, the day." I guess it was then that I began to realize just how much stress couples go through. Did I go through that same stress on my wedding day? I don't recall, but I do know it was a great day. So as your day gets closer, don't let the worries or concerns bring an extra weight to your shoulder. Try not to put to much time emphasis on certain aspects of your day. It will all happen and chances are pretty good it will not begin to happen until you're there anyway. Take a couple minutes to take it all in. From waking up through the reception. Just take it in. Don't worry if the limo arrives somewhere around 10 minutes late, or if the sun is out or not. It just happens that so much of your day is out of your control, so stop and ask yourself, "why do I have to control this?" The answer, you don't. Let your day unfold and realize that it will be beautiful no matter what the weather, no matter what happened to the dress or maybe just a necklace. Don't worry if you're 10 minutes late to the ceremony, it's your day! Why should you worry or stress at all? YOU SHOULDN'T! So you've done what you can do, let everyone else worry for you now. It will all be beautiful. But don't forget to stop and take that beauty in. I recently had a bride that decided a videographer was something she didn't need only to later say, "oh my god, I didn't see this or that". I'm not saying to hire a videographer. What I am saying is to just stop. Go into a corner and look around. Look at all the smiling faces, the tears, the laughter and all the little things you put time into. Look at it all and take it in, hold it near and know that this day, YOUR DAY, is a beautiful thing! The Importance of a Professional Wedding Officiant
by Terry Perez Brides and grooms often overlook the importance of the person actually conducting their wedding ceremony. They place great care in a place, date, and time, but do not consider that the ceremony will not go forward without an officiant. The person you choose to conduct your ceremony is the person you are counting on to share your vision, personalize your vows, and finalize your special day. This industry often goes unchecked because a lot of officiants are ministers and Justices of the Peace, which people simply assume are always professionals. The truth is, while the vast majority are, some can have questionable reputations in the industry just like any other business. The stories of showing up late or not at all, answering cell phones during the ceremony, refusing to customize your ceremony and vows, getting your names wrong, or countless other mistakes are endless and an absolute nightmare for any bride and groom. Before you book your officiant, know what to ask and what to expect for your money. Officiant fees can vary between $150.00 to $450.00 so make certain you know what you are getting. A higher price does not always mean a better officiant so be prepared when you interview them. Once you have established a date, time and place for your wedding, it's time to look for a wedding officiant. Start looking early as the best officiants, like the best vendors, tend to get booked quickly. See how much "control" your officiant allows you over your ceremony. Does your officiant insist on a religious ceremony? Are you getting a "fixed text" wedding -- that is, a "word for word" style ceremony that is read for every couple? How much choice are you given in putting together your ceremony? Will your officiant help with advice in writing your own vows? In giving you suggestions for readings and ceremony ideas? An officiant should have no problem giving you references. If they do, don't walk...run away! An officiant should always return your calls, answer your e-mails, and be available to you for all your needs. They should also be at your ceremony early to go over things and make sure there are no problems. Ask what will happen if your officiant has an emergency on your special day. Do they have a replacement? Who is this person and will they be able to step in at the last minute if need be? Your payment is probably non-refundable so make certain you get your questions answered and feel comfortable that your officiant shares your dream of the perfect ceremony. Finally, did you know you can get married at the airport, in a park, your favorite restaurant, in a skating rink, the top floor of a building that overlooks the city, or anywhere else you desire? Well you can. So consider what your day means to you and follow your dream! Registered with Volusia county for marriage counseling for discount on license and 3 day waiting period If you need a Wedding Officiant for your vows fill out the form below. How Much a Marriage License Cost?Florida law requires a couple to obtain a marriage license in order to have a legally binding wedding ceremony. Some states require a medical examination or blood tests in order to obtain a license. All require proof of identification and a marriage license application fee. The cost for a marriage license application in Florida is generally $93.50. Couples who have completed a state-sanctioned marriage preparation course within the past 12 months are entitled to a discount of $32.50. The provider of the class must be listed with the Clerks office. The Florida Premarital Preparation, is a course provided by a qualified instructor registered with the Clerk of the Circuit Court consisting of not less than 4 hours. The course may include instruction regarding conflict management, communication skills, financial responsibilities, children and parenting responsibilities on actual case data compiled from information reported by married couples who seek counseling. The course may be provided by personal instruction, videotape instruction, instructions via other electronic medium or a combination of these methods. A roster is available in any Clerk's Office issuing marriage licenses. The fee paid should cover application processing and at least one copy of the marriage license. Many locales do accept credit cards now, but be sure to check with the local county clerk to to verify whether or not you need cash. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12Living Bible (TLB)9 Two can accomplish more than twice as much as one, for the results can be much better. 10 If one falls, the other pulls him up; but if a man falls when he is alone, he’s in trouble.
11 Also, on a cold night, two under the same blanket gain warmth from each other, but how can one be warm alone? 12 And one standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer; three is even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Marriage; Sometimes the Road is Rocky, Just Remember: “To solve a marriage problem, you have to talk with each other about it, choosing wisely the time and place. But when accusations and lengthy speeches of defense fill the dialogue, the partners are not talking to each other but past each other. Take care to listen more than you speak. If you still can’t agree on a solution, consider asking a third party, without a vested interest, to mediate.” ~ R.C. Sproul
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Dudsdread Country Club 1985
www.historicaldubsdread.com Dubsdread now Spiritual growth and marriage work together, hand in hand. To the degree that a couple looks toward God, they will be blessed in their marriage. It is the fundamental relationship in which to apply all that God has taught us about kindness, compassion, and selflessness. When we use these same teachings in a marriage framework, we set a course toward happier lives. The Lord has said, "Give and it will be given unto you." This is truer in marriage than in any other relationship
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“Then the LORD God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’” ~ The Holy Bible, Genesis 2:18
“God created marriage. No government subcommittee envisioned it. No social organization developed it. Marriage was conceived and born in the mind of God.” ~ Max Lucado |
Morgan just left you a review:
I could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! David and Toni were so charming and professional throughout the ceremony and into the reception. It is not an easy thing to choose the person to perform a wedding ceremony using the internet, but I assure you that David is a fantastic choice. He has a wonderful attitude and made me feel very comfortable. We didn't even need a rehearsal and it was flawless.
I was so grateful to both David and Toni, who took a day from their vacation to drive 95 miles to start us on our lives together.
I would recommend them for your event. You will not be disappointed at all.
I am so very pleased!
Thank you both so much for your gracious and professional demeanor on such a potentially stressful day!
We are blessed!
Morgan
Aleacia Blake with Chris Spann.
Just now · Thank you everyone for all of your congratulations and well wishes! We are very excited to have officially started our life together. It was a wonderful day and I cannot thank our family enough for all they did for us to make it even more memorable! Thank you Liz VetterSmith , LaOra Minor Dean, Noelia Vallejo and Toni Smothers and David Smothers for your wonderful services!
5/5 stars Catholic Wedding Officiant Verified Review
Excellent Job
Orlino F. on November 28, 2015
5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
David and his wife Toni came to our home on very short notice and performed a lovely ceremony and a beautiful prayer with us and our immediate family. I would absolutely recommend David to other couples.
Dayna B. on January 26, 2016
5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
Wonderful and easy experience from start to finish. Floyd was a wonderful and attentive to what I was looking for with my parents surprise vow renewal. He was flexible when I wanted to change the vows, and he was even flexible when we changed the time of the event last minute too. I can't thank him enough for helping us achieve such a wonderful, loving, and Christ-centered ceremony without a hitch! My family will have those memories forever! God bless you and your wife's ministry always!
Melissa M. on February 16, 2016
Lindsey Crandall
The last few weeks have been an unbelievably amazing whirlwind andAlex and I want to thank our family and friends again for making our wedding so perfect. We also want to thank Kayla Dixon, her family and crew at The Delamater House for EVERYTHING you guys did for our family. It was even more beautiful than I pictured, you guys are AMAZING. Thank-you Toni Smothers and David Smothers for officiating our ceremony and being a part of our day. We are so blessed to have found you! Thank you Whitney Larson and Daniella for the beautiful pictures! So excited to see the rest! Thank-you G and G Entertainment: Greg Seymour & Grant Wilson for being such fun DJ's. Everyone had a blast, you guys rock! Thank-you Cakery Creation for the coolest wedding and grooms cake EVER. You're so talented! Thank you Amy Frederick and Liz Jonesfor my make-up and hair and for keeping me touched up throughout the night♥ Thank you Julia's Floral Designs for my the beautiful flower. I loved the poinsettias, they were perfect! And for the delicious food, thanksPitmasters Bbq! We couldn't be happier with the turn out and are very grateful to you all heart emoticon
Review: ****
Janet just left you a review:
We contacted David a few months before our date and he was very easy to communicate with in every way. He provided us with options for vows. He was on time for our sunrise ceremony and we couldn't have been happier using him. Our special day was a true blessing and David's service was just perfect for us.
Review: ****
David was very professional, on time, and helped in every way he could. He was very patient with us as we kept changing our vows. I would highly recommend him to be your officiate for your special day.
Donna Motley
I could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! David and Toni were so charming and professional throughout the ceremony and into the reception. It is not an easy thing to choose the person to perform a wedding ceremony using the internet, but I assure you that David is a fantastic choice. He has a wonderful attitude and made me feel very comfortable. We didn't even need a rehearsal and it was flawless.
I was so grateful to both David and Toni, who took a day from their vacation to drive 95 miles to start us on our lives together.
I would recommend them for your event. You will not be disappointed at all.
I am so very pleased!
Thank you both so much for your gracious and professional demeanor on such a potentially stressful day!
We are blessed!
Morgan
Aleacia Blake with Chris Spann.
Just now · Thank you everyone for all of your congratulations and well wishes! We are very excited to have officially started our life together. It was a wonderful day and I cannot thank our family enough for all they did for us to make it even more memorable! Thank you Liz VetterSmith , LaOra Minor Dean, Noelia Vallejo and Toni Smothers and David Smothers for your wonderful services!
5/5 stars Catholic Wedding Officiant Verified Review
Excellent Job
Orlino F. on November 28, 2015
5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
David and his wife Toni came to our home on very short notice and performed a lovely ceremony and a beautiful prayer with us and our immediate family. I would absolutely recommend David to other couples.
Dayna B. on January 26, 2016
5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
Wonderful and easy experience from start to finish. Floyd was a wonderful and attentive to what I was looking for with my parents surprise vow renewal. He was flexible when I wanted to change the vows, and he was even flexible when we changed the time of the event last minute too. I can't thank him enough for helping us achieve such a wonderful, loving, and Christ-centered ceremony without a hitch! My family will have those memories forever! God bless you and your wife's ministry always!
Melissa M. on February 16, 2016
Lindsey Crandall
The last few weeks have been an unbelievably amazing whirlwind andAlex and I want to thank our family and friends again for making our wedding so perfect. We also want to thank Kayla Dixon, her family and crew at The Delamater House for EVERYTHING you guys did for our family. It was even more beautiful than I pictured, you guys are AMAZING. Thank-you Toni Smothers and David Smothers for officiating our ceremony and being a part of our day. We are so blessed to have found you! Thank you Whitney Larson and Daniella for the beautiful pictures! So excited to see the rest! Thank-you G and G Entertainment: Greg Seymour & Grant Wilson for being such fun DJ's. Everyone had a blast, you guys rock! Thank-you Cakery Creation for the coolest wedding and grooms cake EVER. You're so talented! Thank you Amy Frederick and Liz Jonesfor my make-up and hair and for keeping me touched up throughout the night♥ Thank you Julia's Floral Designs for my the beautiful flower. I loved the poinsettias, they were perfect! And for the delicious food, thanksPitmasters Bbq! We couldn't be happier with the turn out and are very grateful to you all heart emoticon
Review: ****
Janet just left you a review:
We contacted David a few months before our date and he was very easy to communicate with in every way. He provided us with options for vows. He was on time for our sunrise ceremony and we couldn't have been happier using him. Our special day was a true blessing and David's service was just perfect for us.
Review: ****
David was very professional, on time, and helped in every way he could. He was very patient with us as we kept changing our vows. I would highly recommend him to be your officiate for your special day.
Vicki M. on September 1, 2015- 5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
My experience was amazing. I would recommend him for anyone Who is getting married. He definitely went above and beyond with helping me and dealing with my constant changes. I doubt you'll find a better price than his as well.
Caitlyn K. on August 24, 2015 - 5/5 stars
David did an excellent job for my marriage. Very easy to get along with and very helpful.
Clarence T. on August 24, 2015 - 5/5 stars Wedding Officiant Verified Review
PERFECT!!
Candice T. on August 14, 2015
- 4/5 stars
DAVID DID A GOOD JOB MARRYING MY HUSBAND AND I. HE WAS VERY HELPFUL.
JO M. on August 28, 2015 - Review: ****
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